Telepathic Sex

What Is Telepathic Sex?

Telepathic sex is the anywhere, anytime method of sexual exploration and enhancement!Β It’s erotic play no matter if you are single or part of a couple!

But before you dive in, you have to understand how to swim. To master telepathic sex, you must learn how to connect telepathically.

What is a Telepathic Connection?

Telepathy is the energetic transfer of touch, ideas, thoughts, emotions, feelings, and sound. A Telepathic Connection is the energy bond that connects two or more minds into the same energetic wavelength to utilize telepathy.

Communication between people without a word spoke is a natural gift that spans centuries. Our mind, like radio or TV towers, emits and steadily receives electrical energies. We cannot see this happening, but we know that it happens as when we flip on a TV or radio our program “magically” appears it seems, out of thin air!

Our minds work the same way. We broadcast emotions, moods, thoughts, attitudes, fragments of our personality unknowingly every day. Everything that emits energy also absorbs energy. Meaning, that with practice we can learn to read and speak to one another without ever moving our mouths!

A stranger cannot listen in on your private thoughts, nor can you act like a psychic spy and barrel in to retrieve another person’s thoughts. We all have a natural force field or barrier that protects our thinking from others. We do not have to think about it for it to be there as it is as automatic as a sunrise. However, we can give people permission to read our minds by mentally lowering this field by only telling ourselves to do so.

Telepathy uses a combination of processes to work. Your two psychic sensors; your solar plexus chakra (located 2 in above your belly button) and your temporal lobes (located on either side of the head just above ear level), which are both in direct connection to your astral energy field and all 5 of your senses.

Simple Telepathic Connection

  1. Have a person in mind to connect to – imagine them to the best of your abilities.
  2. From your temporal lobes – imagine a white light coming out and surrounding you. The light is for protection from negativity & for telepathically connecting.
  3. Take the white light and see your partner surrounded by it – so you both are in the same white light energy bubble.
  4. You should feel something in your solar plexus – a tingle, vibration, pulse, tickle, etc. This way you know you’re connected, and it’s not a fantasy.
  5. Allow the rest of your senses to take part – hear – feel – smell – touch your partner.
  6. Communicate.
  7. When finished, pull back your energy.

How Does Telepathic Sex Occur?

Telepathic sex happens just like physical sex, only his or her physical body is not in front of you. Instead, you’re in a pure energy form and what happens to that energy directly affects the physical body. Once the telepathic connection is secure, you use your mind to direct your energy to kiss, fondle, engage in oral sex, or sexual intercourse with your partner.

Can you close your eyes and imagine kissing someone? If so, then telepathic sex will not be too difficult for you to master.

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  1. i have tried to do it yesterday .. as i started to connect i felt some warm in my body .. then when i started doing sex through telepathy i felt that my whole body is shivering .. my penis make movements as if i’m in real sex .. i felt that i’m anout to cum but the connection ended before i do .. at first i was visualizing my partener clearly but when i started doing sex it started to be not clear (i mean the face) before the connection ended the face was not clear at all.
    i wanna ask if this is normal ro happen in this experience?
    other thing .. what about the other person’s feelings ?

    • Yes! Very normal. The shivering is your physical body reacting to the increase in your vibrational frequency. Your physical body will react to what is happening via obe sex. So your penis moving as if you are with a physical person is perfectly normal. With your partner’s face not being clear during sex, once your attention shifted to the act of sex instead of seeing the person, the face faded. The more you do this, the easier it will be to put your attention on the sex while still being able to hold you lover’s face in focus. You partner would have felt something sexual. They wouldn’t necessarily know it is you unless you told them you were going to connect or that they have been working with energy for some time and know the difference in our energy signatures. Happy OBE’ing πŸ™‚

  2. my partner is not my lover yet, and doesn’t know that I’m practicing telepathy .. actually I thought that telepathic sex will help me to attract her.
    so , is there any way that she attach those sexual feelings to me?

  3. I m in telepathic connection with someone who i feel reads my thpughts and does sex with me without my permission i feel a depletion in my energy. Does telepathic sex deplete one’s energy? I want to know that why he is doing so and want to break the link. Any suggestions?

  4. I also would like to know great question!

  5. I have had an encounter with a blonde haired blue eyed man who calls himself Apollo. we have been having telepathic sex since I was 13….is that normal?

    • I tend to think that whatever feels normal to a person is what normal is for them. Do I know people who have had long-term telepathic sex? Yes. But mot usually from such a young age. As long as you are comfortable with it and it isn’t causing problems in your life – it’s a good thing.

      Happy OBE’ing!
      Allie πŸ™‚

  6. is it weird that he calls himself Apollo the sun god??

  7. so u didn’t answer my question .. does that mean there is no way that she knows that is me

    • There’s no way to tell if she knows 100% that it is you or not. Is it a possibility that she knows it is you? Yes. When you connect to someone without them knowing about it ahead of time – they feel sexually turned on & if they personally know you – your name and/or image will pop up in their mind. It’s up to them if they put two and two together to realize that you are the one connected to them.

  8. thanks .. I think it is enough for me

  9. I’ve been reading about this and it really interests me and I have never done it and would love to be able to someday experience this! Is there a group or place people can go to online or something and get further help and be as to try it on each other??

  10. I know im late on this reply but i looked this up and found this page because i was interested if anyone had experienced what i did last night.
    I have been talking to an ex
    Who lives in another state now, qe wwre eachothers first loves and dated for anlong time.
    We were texting and it turned into some PG sexting,
    No porn terms or anything too gruesome just faint descriptions of what we wanted to do, the more we texted
    The more i felt his sexualenergy,i felt it all so warm and strong in my lower chakras, and at one point i felt us completely in symc with our imagination, as if our energies were really making love, i saw his face and felt everything so vividly. All with pure imagination. This morning i felt as you do when you sleep with someone you love, much more connected. Very interesting thanks for this article.

    • Is there any possible way to know what a telepath wants from me who is connected to me without me wanting and interested much in this connection? He does sexual things, drains my energy to the extent that I can’t even remain stand or sit sumtimes I have to lay down. Doesnt let me sleep in nites, many a times Gives me unbearable pain and sumtimes does sum really nice things too. All his behavior is a puzzle. Not sure what does he want. Can u help me in finding what his strategy is or what does he actually want?

      • Hi ABC!

        He wants your sexual energy. A human’s sexual energy has the power to move mountains. It’s strong and vital to life.

        To help stop him check out the articles I wrote about OBE protection: and follow what they say.

        You can stop him from taking your energy but you have to be more proactive and not reactive.

        Good luck! Allie πŸ™‚

    VITAL == THANK YOU / TU / TU == RU

    • Hi Ru!

      Thank you for writing. My Out of Body Ecstasy book addresses most of this. What is not in that book is in this website.

      The reason you’re afraid is because you can’t control it. Learn how to use it and it will not be as scary.

      Good luck! Allie πŸ™‚

  12. Recently I have been sporadically experiencing something strange, usually it happens late in the evening/night, suddenly I start to become aroused (without any sexual thoughts from myself), & start to feel warm pleasurable energy in my lower chakras, a couple of times it has been so intense I actually feel the energy in waves like it is pulsing slowly. I usually get an erection and just sit back and enjoy the sensation, or have to go and ‘relieve’ myself.
    It doesn’t last very long, maybe 5 or 10 minutes, but I usually feel pretty good for a while afterwards, like a relaxed feeling from the endorphins or something. Does this sound like telepathic sex? What does it mean that a woman is having an intense sexual fantasy about me?
    I have been doing a lot of energy work on myself & think I’m becoming more psychically sensitive, so maybe it is just kundilini energy or something?
    How can I tell & how can I tell who it is if it is another person?
    Many thanks.

    • Hi Sane Man!

      Oh hell ya this is OBE sex. Fantasies do not make an OBE connection as with a fantasy you stay in your mind. This person is concentrating their energy towards you (it doesn’t have to specifically be you – it could be she is concentrating on a soul mate connection or someone with strong energy) while either they are having sex or masturbating – their sexual pleasure is giving you sexual pleasure. Because you are working with energy more – your energy body is getting stronger making it easier for her and for others to find you. Think of a location with a bunch of light bulbs that are dim. The moths are flying around trying to find the best bulb for heat. One bulb is changed to a new bulb and it lights up the area with ease. All the moths flock to it ignoring the dim light bulbs. By working with your energy – you are now the new light bulb.

      Finding out who she is difficult – as they will usually show up in a dream. But not all of us remember all of our dreams. If you’d like to talk more about this – we can set up a consult – drop me a message via my contact form if you want to talk (there is a change for the consult).

      Best of luck! Allie πŸ™‚

  13. Hi Allie,

    Can a woman have an Orgasm through Mental Telepathy Sex? Also is it as pleasurable for her as it is for me?


    • Hey Curious!

      Yes and Yes – through telepathic sex they can indeed have both.

      Happy OBE’ing!
      Allie πŸ™‚

  14. Hi

    I was just curious, I have been trying telepathy sex with someone I am very attracted to, but feel I am invading his space, I feel bad making this connection but when he responds to my connection it feels good. His Energy is very powerful to the point that I shake going back into awakening stage. How would I know he enjoys me connecting with him and if he feels this too without asking him directly?

    • Hey Michelle!

      All humans have a natural protection “shield” from unwanted energies. If you make it through (without any prior knowledge from the other person) it usually means you have past life connections. So that’s a good thing. Then if you feel that they are returning energy to you instead of kicking your energy to the curb – then it stands to reason that he enjoys the connection even if he might not understand it consciously.

      Good luck!
      Allie πŸ™‚

  15. I finally kissed the man I have intense fantasies about. It was an expected kiss, on the cheek. He said it was “sweet” and we were awkward the rest of the day. But now that I know the feel of his skin on my lips, I am unable to stop thinking about him. At night, I feel like he is real and right next to me, touching me, kissing me, even when I’m destracted. It’s more real that real physical sex. And I can orgasm without touching any part of my body. Could he be thinking about me when this happens? It’s so intense, almost involuntary. When I see him during the day, I have to look away, he’s as bright as the sun.

    • He could be thinking about you Sane woman – but he doesn’t have to be in order for you to feel like this & have orgasms. His soul knows your soul & he allows you into his energy, even if he doesn’t consciously understand it- that’s all that’s required πŸ™‚ Have fun! If you’d like to discuss this further I’d be happy to arrange a consultation.

  16. I have a man that I have connected with and had telepathic sex with, who now won’t leave me alone. What steps can I take, as telling him no, or pushing him away doesn’t work?

  17. hello Allie I read your page about telepathic sex, I find it interesting as I have a coworker who we have been doing telepathic sex. There have been a lot of physical attraction yet not much communication connection. I tend to be silent a lot. I find myself feeling inadequate to be with her, and somehow my intuition tells me not to trust her. But she seems to have been in my mind for 2 years now with obsessive thoughts at first. At first I was way to shy and needy there was no attraction. But since I started doing nofap I see her paying more attention to me, making eye contact, being seductive. I still cant seem to socially connect tho and now I seem to just avoid her. Not sure I understand all of this Im confuse. I feel like if I get to close she will talk behind my back because I heard her gossiping a little. Thank you.

    • Hi Remi! Just about everyone gossips at work – they find it makes work more interesting. Personally – I’ve never found it appealing. Your energy has connected to her energy and it makes her more comfortable around you. Even if she doesn’t consciously understand what is going on – that’s what happened. You can pursue her and ask her out on a date or continue to look at her from afar – it’s up to you. Either way – it’s cool that you’ve made this energetic connection. If you’d like to discuss this further I’d be happy to arrange a consultation. Good luck! A:)

  18. Thanks love!!

  19. I have experienced something similar. Thought maybe I was crazy but, it is also amazing.definitely worth a try.
    I believe I am in touch with a soul mate of sorts. Someone perhaps I have been connected to for a long time and wasn’t able to tune in until now.

    • Hey Cherish! Thanks for stopping by. You’re not crazy at all. This is a brand new adventure opening up soul paths of connection. Enjoy yourself πŸ™‚

      Happy OBE’ing!

      • Thanks for the reply ☺ I am wondering if the connection means I am supposed to meet this person in this lifetime? I am married, but this soulmate feeling is very strong and so is the desire to find them. Feeling conflicted.?

  20. Hi Allie,

    Thank you for all that you do. My question is if I have in person mental telepathy sex is there a stronger connection since I am in the same room as the person as opposed to being many miles away?

    Thank you,


    • Hi Curious!

      Nope – doesn’t matter if they are next to you in bed or on the other side of the world. Energy is energy and we’re all connected πŸ™‚

      Thanks for asking!

  21. Thanks Obe for the great article.I have been using telepathic sex and kissing etc with my date since 3 weeks but last Sunday we had a fight and he is not talking to me since. Yet I still have this tele sex with him few times a day for like 5 mins each and it makes me feel wonderful with a fast heart beat. But he still hasn’t contacted me after the fight. He is a lovely guy and it would be a shame to loose him . Hopefully if I continue to do this he will come back?Are people able to attract people through this?If so how many days would you recommend to do this on a specific person?
    Thanks a lot

    • Hi An,

      It is possible to strengthen a connection to a person via telepathic sex. The more you have it – the stronger the connection gets. He returning to you is up to him no matter how strong the connection is – we all have free will. If you’d like to discuss this further I’d be happy to arrange a paid consultation.

      Best of luck with you man!

    • Hi An,

      It is possible to strengthen a connection to a person via telepathic sex. The more you have it – the stronger the connection gets. He returning to you is up to him no matter how strong the connection is – we all have free will. If you’d like to discuss this further I’d be happy to arrange a paid consultation.

      Best of luck with you man!

  22. Hey Allie,

    I have a question, me and my girlfriend have been doing this for quite sometime, but something strange occurs. Sometimes when we are far away and we have just stopped talking to sleep or something, I would be asleep and then she would experience astral sex that feels very physical as if I am really there with here and she senses that it is my same energy blueprint, but I don’t remember anything on waking up, so is this is like common, going astrally to someone and having intercourse unconsciously? Also is there is anyway to confirm if this was me or not?


    • Hey J!

      Yes – it’s entirely possible to do so. Astral travel/dreaming use the same space – the same energy layers. The only difference between the two are astral travel = conscious mind awake and dreaming = conscious mind asleep. Unless you remember the experience, there’s no way to say 100% it was you – UNLESS – when the two of you discuss it, it feels right. It’s important to trust your intuition/your gut on adventures such as these. Hope that helps!

      Happy OBE’ing!
      Allie πŸ™‚

  23. I am a female and I have been experiencing sexual/loving feelings in my lower chakras. These are not my feelings but It is as if I am on the receiving end of these sexual feelings. I also feel I know who is doing this, he’s a guy from work who has an intense secret attraction towards me. I sometimes feel his emotions too as I am an empath. But this goes way deep I feel he is somebody who I have a soul connection to.
    Is it possible that this guy is projecting his sexual feelings towards me?

    • Hi GG!

      The attraction isn’t so secret if you know about it πŸ™‚ Yes – it is totally possible that he is connecting to you and sending you his sexual feelings. When people have a soul connection soul mate/soul mate, twin flame/soul mate, or twin flame/twin flame it’s easier to connect and send sexual energy. If you allow the sexual energy to travel up through your heart chakra – it’ll hit all the chakras and not just the lower ones.

      Good luck!
      Allie πŸ™‚

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  25. Hi Allie,

    How do you know for sure if someone is your twinflame? I feel his energy almost every day and also in a sexual way including feelings of penetration and pulling on my energy body (including vibrations and fast back and forth movements) as if it wants to come loose from my physical body. Also I few days ago I felt as if we were French kissing, far more realistic then when you would imagine doing it. Can we expand these experiences?

    Thank you for answering Alie. ❀️

    • Hi, Ersa!

      The way you know is you know. There isn’t a question. It’s not an IF. It’s a FACT. Being/connecting to a twin flame is soothing. It’s loving. There is no obsessing over that soul. There isn’t a thirst to have to be with them. You don’t expect anything from them. Rather you appreciate them without an expectation that something has to happen in the life. A twin flame connection is eternal. It’s never-ending. It goes beyond sex – physical or OBE – it’s about the soul to soul connection no matter if you are in the same room or across the world from one another. It doesn’t matter if you are alive and they are not. Connections have no boundaries. They go beyond anything you have ever experienced. Not all twin flame connections are meant to be a romantic connection in this current life.

      This Ask Allie podcast may also shed some light on twin flames:

      The type of energy connection you describe can be with a twin flame or one of your soul mates.

      Good luck!
      Allie πŸ™‚

  26. Hi,
    1. Person A , Passing message through telepathy to person B to do some work in favour of person A.
    Will person B does desired work as expected by person A.

    • Hi!

      Unless Person A is Professor Xavier – no – Person B will not do as A commands. Person B may consider what Person A wants – but Person B still has free will to say no.

      Take care,
      Allie πŸ™‚

  27. I happened to stumble over this skill/gift (curse?) as an accident. I knew about the sacral chakra and somehow I connected my fantasies about a woman I work with sacral cahkra during an extremely boring meeting at work when the only thing that came to mind was sex. I was thinking about touching her and at the same time focused on her sacral chakra. I don’t know why and I never thought it would work. When she couldn’t help but to sigh and allmost collapsed in her chair I couldnt believe my eyes. Of course I couldn’t stop my self from trying it on every hot chick at work and they are quite a few. Some liked it and “fantazised back at me” wich allmost made it feel like real sex. Sometimes not so fun and somtimes even better. After a while I started to feel bad about it because I could imagine how some of them must have felt, like being attacked by a ghost or something. The thing is, it’s hard to stop once you’ve started, it feels like telepathic cords that keeps me connected to allmost everyone I’ve had a fantazised about since it started and any time any of them thinks about me sexually it gets me started and works my sacral chakra til the point it’s allmost impossible to not think about them and there we go again. I have worked on my selfcontrol so now I can stop my self most of the times. Whats worse is that I now somehow radiates horny energy that makes everyone around me insecure, blushing and unable to look me in the eyes. They stumble and all that comes out their mouths is rubbish, it’s horrible. Not only women, men allso feels this energy.

    So, foremost this is a warning to anyone that has these kind of dreams. Sex can easily become an addiction an lust is an extremely powerful force. This is not a problem for most people in “normal ife” since you can’t just do sexual things to any one you fancy. In the “psychic world” lines are blurred and you must have a much stronger moral to not end up doing things that are potentially hurtfull to yourself and others. Allso, power as we all know, corrupts. This meens that you can easily fall in a trap that is really hard to get out of, I’m searious! I have just started to get some control over my own damn fantazy that seems to have a mind of it’s own. Allso it seems I’ve able to cut some of the weeker telepathic cords through homemade visulisation-methods.

    I would still be very thankful for any help to cut the stronger cords, clean my aura and stop radiating these lower energies that makes old ladies turn into blushing schoolgirls and men act like they saw a ghost or just start mumbling jibberish.

    I have promised myself to do everything I can to stop the horny side of myself to take over unless I do it to someone who I know wants it and with knowledge to control the consequenses. I hope this text can prevent others from doing the same misstakes. You might think this is coolest thing ever, but it’s never that simple


    • Hey, J-Man!

      It is a gift or a curse that all of us can utilize. I stumbled into this by what I call an accident – but I’m sure it was by design. Just not my design πŸ™‚ It’s a gift when you use your energy well and a curse when you don’t keep your energy in check.

      Like anything else keeping your energy from invading other people takes practice.

      The more you engage in energy or OBE sex, the stronger your energy becomes. The higher your energy, the more you will affect people around you. When you walk into a room and your energy radiates like the sun, people are going to unconsciously stumble over what they say – be sexually attracted to you – want to talk to you but won’t know why.

      Power isn’t corrupt. On its own, it is only power. The person behind the power and what their intention is with that power is what makes it good or evil.

      The best cord-cutting procedure I’ve tried is from Doreen Virtue. You can find an article on it here:

      To stop the “deer in the headlights” reaction from people when you enter your room – shield them from your energy. Before you go into a room – imagine yourself in a large vortex of white energy. After you have that firmly in your mind, see a circular wall, made of ice or crystal, clank down around you (and I mentally hear a CLANK like when a heavy metal door closes) with your head also shielded (you’re in an upside-down test tube). Once you can imagine this – enter the room.

      Vortex – gathers your energy
      Ice/Crystal wall – allows your energy to be protected from others without all of your energy in (if keep all your energy close to you people will feel that you are not social and stay away).

      The same sacral energy that fuels your sexual center also charges your wellbeing, creativity, and abundance. If you want to tone down the sex – channel the energy into one or more of the other three areas.

      Hope this helps!
      Allie πŸ™‚

  28. Hi Allie,

    Maybe you can answer my questions?
    I really need to know and don’t know who else to ask.

    Greetings, Esra.

  29. After making love with my lover with his sperm inside me one half hour after I feel this amazing warmth inside, also he generally shows up at the same time of day and since then, even alone at that same time of day I feel he is inside me. I could be anywhere with no sexual thoughts but it just comes in waves. Thought I would share. Namaste

    • Sweet!!

      Thanks for the share!

      Share whenever you’d to do so.

      Happy OBE’ing!
      Allie πŸ™‚

      • Lately as I connect telepathically with my lover he holds onto me do strongly that I have to gently remind him to let go, but it sems he really wants my attention through OBE its a very stong feeling.

  30. Thanks for the questions that been sent,and for the answers.I came to Google with the if this all could be done and,your website pop up. Thank you good informative.

    • Thanks for stopping by Lele! I’m pleased that you’ve found the information helpful!

      Happy OBE’ing!
      Allie πŸ™‚

  31. I experienced this for the first time recently. I was working on paper work and in the middle of my business calls when I felt this warm, tingly sensation in my Vajay jay. I didn’t know what was happening! Then it felt like penal thrusts or stimulation of my g-spot. I saw my estranged fiance face and softly called out his name without thinking. I saw his eyes and proceeded to engage in hot, erotic sex with him! He was whispering to me telling me how he wanted to be pleased. As a result of this encounter, I had two orgasms. Then I cried not out of sadness. I don’t know why, this freaked me out.There are times a lot lately when my lover pops into my head and stays there until I fall asleep. I can feel his energy all over me. What’s going on in my case?

    • Hi Pam!

      Telepathic sex – that’s what’s going on in your case – at least for the erotic sex part. Him being with you until you fall asleep is a good-ole-fashion telepathic connection. Because you’re engaged (no matter if you’re estranged or not) is why it’s so easy to connect. You already have a soul connection.


      Take care,
      Allie πŸ™‚

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